Communicating with people usually involves finding a common denominator~like work/family/pets/schools etc. A big part of communication is good listening skills, facial expressions and body language and then the words used and the manner in which they are said. Social skills are something that I'm dealing with at www.learninghowsite.com for online and off-line socialising :-) Hope this helps a bit.

First, address how well you communicate with your Self. Self-talk matters. Try saying this: I could communicate better with others. Also, repeat daily: Every day I improve how well I communicate with others. Tell yourself what you can do, rather than that you can't. And, rather than focus on what to say, become curious--ask questions.